I finally landed a date with someone on OkCupid who fits the majority of my ideal man wish-list! The qualities I’m looking for that he has:
- An Atheist
- Has dark hair
- Has facial hair
- Has a dog
- Has an appreciation for sarcasm similar to mine
- Likes to text
- Has a full time job
- Owns his own vehicle
- Is a reasonable height to width ratio
One would think these would not be difficult things to find in a person, but you’d be surprised. I constantly get messaged from people who list their religion as “Christian and somewhat serious about it” despite my profile clearly listing “Atheist and very serious about it.”
Could it be that men don’t read my profile?!? GASP AND AWE!
I miss the old days of OkCupid. They used to have a way to filter who could send you messages (by age and match %). Back in the days when “visitors” was actually called “stalkers” - because lets face it, that’s what it is. Look at someones profile like their house. If you visit my house 10 times a day, that is no longer just visiting.